Recommended Hitch, Wiring Harness, and Brake Controller for a 2013 Toyota Highlander
Published 08/14/2022 >
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My wife and I are purchasing a travel trailer and have a 2013 Toyota Highlander AWD with the V6 engine. There is no towing package and the only connector under the panel in the rear is a small white 4 pin square connector. There is no 4 flat. We need a 7 point connector, hitch, and trailer brake controller. I watched several of your videos and have placed the following in my cart: e98858, 90195, ETBC7, HM411141845, and A0500. Are these all the items I need to do this installation? Also, is there a better picture or diagram that shows where the brake switch wiire is near the brake pedal? Thank you.
asked by: John C
Helpful Expert Reply:
I would be happy to help you set up your 2013 Toyota Highlander for towing. I will start by confirming that the etrailer Trailer Hitch Receiver item # e98858 does fit your Highlander. Since you do not have any vehicle connectors at the rear of your Highlander you will need both item # HM11141845 and item # ETBC7 to add a 7-way connector.
The Tekonsha Prodigy P3 Trailer Brake Controller item # 90195 is one of our most popular brake controllers and is highly recommended. I have linked a picture below that I hope helps you find the wiring harness you will need to splice into.
The Metal Loom Clamp - 1/2" item # A0500 will help you to secure your wires beneath your Highlander.
To round out your towing setup I recommend the Curt Towing Starter Kit for 2" Hitches item # C45534. This towing kit will provide you with a 2" ball and a fixed ball mount with a 3/4" rise and 2" drop. It also includes a hitch pin and clip, hitch receiver lock with keys, hitch cover, and a storage case.
I have linked several installation videos below.
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